Increasingly adult children are caring for elderly parents alongside working and raising a family. While adult children often think it is their responsibility to support their parents, the extra responsibilities can put a strain on family life. There is help with elderly parents available and many care for the elderly options so we would always recommend that you start the conversations early.
Why are so many adult children caring for elderly parents?
There are several reasons why more adult children are helping care for elderly parents including:
- People are living longer, often with conditions that require support.
- Social care services are struggling with increased demand and reduced budgets.
- Many older adults want to continue living in their own home for as long as possible.
The strain of caring for an elderly parent
Research by Yonder found that 79% of people aged 40-60 who are considering caring for an older loved one in the future are worried that they won’t know how to best support them. 69% said that they would find it hard to care for or support an older loved one while also continuing to work and care for their children. 74% of adults thinking about caring or supporting an older parent in the future said they would find it stressful.
Many adult children feel they have no choice but to care for their parents themselves and many believe that it is their responsibility to do so. However, caring for elderly parents can affect every part of your life.
- Work: it can be difficult to commit to a regular 9-5 job when your parents need care.
- Health: caring for loved ones can be stressful and, without support, can lead to anxiety and burn out.
- Relationships: the added stress of caring for elderly parents may put pressure on relationships with family and friends.
- Finances: paying for equipment, travel and other expenses can quickly add up.
What to do if you need help with elderly parents
If you and your family are feeling the strain and need help with elderly parents, don’t be afraid to ask for help.
- Talk to your loved one about care: Ageing and finding you need to rely on others can be daunting and upsetting, so be patient and understanding. We advise starting the conversation early and be open about all the options available.
- Discuss the care options with the wider family: Family members may have differing opinions on what care is needed and, depending on availability and geography, day to day help may vary between siblings. It is important to be open with each other and to agree on a shared plan.
- Contact your local authority: Your elderly parent may be entitled to care through their local authority. You can contact them directly for an assessment.
- Care for the elderly options: Consider hiring a Care Assistant to help your loved one. Our staff are happy to talk through the options available to help you make an informed decision.
If you would like information on how to care for yourself when caring for others and how technology can help, you can visit the Signs of decline section of our website.
Why choose Bright Care
Bright Care can provide in-home care and companionship for elderly loved ones. We focus on building meaningful relationships with our clients and are there to offer practical home help services and emotional support. Our tailored in-home care services provide peace of mind for families who cannot always be there to care for their loved ones.
We are recruiting exceptional Care Assistants in the South East of England and Scotland. If you are interested in a rewarding career in care, please apply now.
